Posts Tagged ‘susan_wisdom’

Stepmothering a feminist issue?

Sunday, November 8th, 2009

In case you missed them, be sure to check out these two recent posts by Wednesday Martin, Ph. D on Psychology Today:

What Makes Stepmothering a Feminist Issue?

“Often, a stepmother is subjected to stepchildren’s hostility and rejecting behavior-something that is normal, but frequently goes unchecked for far too long (due again to dad’s guilt and fear). If she adheres to mainsteam stepparenting advice, much of it rooted in biased, misguided assumptions about how women should be and feel (”Leave the disciplining to him; just love them; you be the fun friend, etc,”), the woman with younger stepchildren finds herself in a position of having no say about parenting practices in her own home.”

Read the full article HERE


Teens can drive you nuts– especially when they’re not yours
with guest blogger Susan Wisdom, author of Stepcoupling

“We all know that parenting teenagers is no piece of cake, but I have to say it’s harder with a stepchild than your own flesh and blood. It’s especially hard for stepmothers. The hardest time for a stepfamily to form is when there are teenagers in the mix…”

Read the full article HERE

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A Romantic Package?

Tuesday, March 10th, 2009

Ladies,
Check out this fantastic five-part blog series by Susan Wisdom, author of Stepcoupling.

The series, Moving From A Romantic Twosome to a Solid Stepcouple and Stepfamily, is about making that difficult emotional transition from romantic couple to accepting, as I like to say, the Package Deal.

Here’s a preview…

“Most stepcouples begin their journey in romantic bliss – two lonely, horny people who attach to each other like magnates often while they’re still married to spouses, or after a miserable divorce…whatever. It doesn’t matter. They fall in love. They’re heavily seduced by the feeling. It’s ROMANCE – not based in reality…sorry to say. But it feels wonderful!! They get married or committed to each, and then they’re no longer just two people in love. It now becomes a GROUP AFFAIR …”

Intrigued? Read the entire post and the entire series HERE

Enjoy!

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More Stepmom Advice

Thursday, February 19th, 2009


Ladies, I’ve just discovered the following hip and resourceful sites that feature stories about the modern-day stepmom– that’s YOU. Check em out!

BLISSFULLY BLENDED The online magazine devoted to real life that reflects you, the reader, your interests, your life, and your bliss.

SHEKNOWS The lifestyle site dedicated to up-to-the-minute coverage of health and beauty, personal style and human connections.

STEPCOUPLING The site based off the book by Susan Wisdom dedicated to building and sustaining a healthy marriage and cultivating stepfamily success.

*there’s a very good chance that you already know about these sites and that this post is simply an embarrassing display of my cyber-lameness.

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