Posts Tagged ‘Expert Advice’

Three Must Read/See/Do’s for Stepmoms

Tuesday, February 23rd, 2010

leah_sam_1 Ladies,

The following article by Wednesday Martin, web series by Claudette Chenevert and radio show by Peggy Nolan and Erin Erickson are MUSTS!

Enjoy!
Izzy_Rose

1) SOCIAL SUPPORT- that’s “friends” to you and me- IS YOUR SECRET WEAPON

“In a stressful situation your best bet may well be to find some supportive friends, and then hang on like hell.”

Expert advice from friend and colleague Wednesday Martin, author of Stepmonster. Read the full article HERE

2) THOUGHT OF THE WEEK SERIES by Claudette Chenevert, Coaching Steps

It is important to be completely aware of the messages that you are sending through your body language, choice of words, and even your tone of voice. We speak volumes with our facial expressions, even by the way we look or don’t look at the other person.

Keep in mind that your words account for only 7% of the message you are sending. That means that 93% of your communication is through your body language and the tone of your voice.

55% of the message you communicate is through your non-verbal cues – your body language. Your facial expressions and your posture actually say more to the other person than the words you speak.

38% of what you are communicating is expressed through your voice. When speaking, your tone of voice emphasizes and validates what you are really feeling.

Next time you have something important to say, consider not just your words, but also the message you are conveying through your non-verbal communication; it speaks the loudest of all.

Claudette Chenevert is the Stepmom Coach and founder of Coaching Steps LLC. She can help you navigate the untraditional path of stepparenthood. Get tools for creating the family life of your dreams by visiting http://www.coachingsteps.com/7steps/

3) BLOG TALK DIVA RADIO

Are you at your wits end being a stepmom? Tired of feeling like you’re doing everything and get nothing in return? Are you tired of playing second best to your husband’s kids and their mother? Want to learn WHY you feel the way you do? Join Peggy Nolan and Erin Erickson dish tips, tools and advice with Wednesday Martin.

Monday, March 1st from 8:00pm – 11:00pm

To listen to the show and call in with your questions FOLLOW THIS LINK

Okay, maybe one more…

4) STEPMOM MAGAZINE GIFT SHOP

The StepMom Magazine’s Gift Shop is open for business! Travel mugs, t-shirts, grocery totes and even doggie tank-tops!  

Start shopping HERE

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Stepmom Support Groups

Monday, November 9th, 2009

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Looking for a Stepmom Support Group?

Check out the upcoming stepmom mixers and meet ups in Florida, North Carolina, Oklahoma, Washington and Virginia! Get all the details HERE!

If you’re interested in attending one of these meet ups, please contact the event organizer first. Thanks!

Izzy_Rose

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Life Coach Offers Advice

Wednesday, October 28th, 2009

gossip2 Girlfriends: Head over to The Stepmom Tool Box where Tess Marshall, author of Flying by the Seat of My Soul will be answering your questions all day long!

Tess Marshall, MA, is an author, speaker and life coach. She has a masters degree in counseling psychology and had a private practice for 15 years before beginning her blog, The Bold Life. Tess has guided people from all walks of life in their quest for greater meaning, purpose and happiness.

In her wise and heartfelt book, Flying by The Seat of My Soul, Tess integrates moving personal stories, profound lessons, uplifting quotes and stories of others that provoke thoughtful self-examination.

Peggy Nolan (aka Tool Box Girl) will be giving away a FREE signed copy of Tess’ book to one lucky stepmom today, but you gotta play to be entered! So, today’s challenge is to finish this sentence: “When I am living my ideal life, I am ____________________”

Have fun!

Izzy_Rose

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New Podcast: The Ex Wife

Wednesday, October 14th, 2009

micNew Podcast: The Ex Wife

Tune in to the Becoming a Stepmom podcast to listen to a conversation Jacquelyn Fletcher, author of the award-winning book A Career Girl’s Guide to Becoming a Stepmom had with Joanie Winberg, the founder of the National Association of Divorce for Women and Children. Joanie is also the host of Single Again! Now What?  Blog Talk Radio show.

Joanie’s the biological mom of two kids who are now in their 20s. She divorced their dad 14 years ago and their stepmom joined their family 7 years ago. Joanie’s advice for stepmoms, dads, and biological moms will have you wishing she was your partner’s ex!

Enjoy!

Izzy_Rose

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Nominate a Sister!

Wednesday, August 5th, 2009

sisterhoodI make it a priority to routinely scour the internet looking for stepladies with stories, advice and wisdom to share. These days, I seem to uncover someone new nearly every day. (This week, it was an entire community of Stepmums from the UK.)

It’s awesome watching our community grow. It really makes me feel like a proud Mama Bird, which is why I like to showcase our swelling population in the Stepmother’s Milk blogroll (see right sidebar). Still, as much as I update the SMM site, I’m sure I’m leaving many lovely ladies off the list.

So, here’s where you come in. Over the course of the next week, please NOMINATE A SISTER. Leave a comment on this post telling us about a step-blogger we don’t know about. Maybe that’s YOU!

It gives me great joy to link arms with you all and strengthen the sisterhood.

Izzy_Rose

p.s. I realize this post sounds rather peace, love and happiness. What can I say? The Texas heat has softened me up.

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