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	<title>Comments on: Swim Lesson</title>
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		<title>By: Izzy</title>
		<link>http://stepmothersmilk.com/2008/04/12/stepmom-advice-5/comment-page-1/#comment-3363</link>
		<dc:creator>Izzy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Apr 2008 13:26:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sara,

And in our stepfamilies, holding our breath often comes naturally! But, it sounds like you&#039;ve been through it... and through it and through it.  I&#039;m sure you&#039;re exhaling just fine.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sara,</p>
<p>And in our stepfamilies, holding our breath often comes naturally! But, it sounds like you&#8217;ve been through it&#8230; and through it and through it.  I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;re exhaling just fine.</p>
<p>IR</p>
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		<title>By: sara</title>
		<link>http://stepmothersmilk.com/2008/04/12/stepmom-advice-5/comment-page-1/#comment-3348</link>
		<dc:creator>sara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Apr 2008 02:46:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Izzy, I have been a stepmother, stepdaughter, stepsister, now step-grandmother, really step everything my entire life--yet I still need to learn how to breathe. Thanks for reminding me in this post that when you&#039;re swimming, breathing comes naturally.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Izzy, I have been a stepmother, stepdaughter, stepsister, now step-grandmother, really step everything my entire life&#8211;yet I still need to learn how to breathe. Thanks for reminding me in this post that when you&#8217;re swimming, breathing comes naturally.</p>
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		<title>By: furiousp</title>
		<link>http://stepmothersmilk.com/2008/04/12/stepmom-advice-5/comment-page-1/#comment-3330</link>
		<dc:creator>furiousp</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Mar 2008 20:33:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I wonder if i can still fit into my one-piece...I&#039;m inspired.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wonder if i can still fit into my one-piece&#8230;I&#8217;m inspired.</p>
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		<title>By: Mark DeVito</title>
		<link>http://stepmothersmilk.com/2008/04/12/stepmom-advice-5/comment-page-1/#comment-3326</link>
		<dc:creator>Mark DeVito</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Mar 2008 19:17:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great stuff!  Love reading your blog.  Push that comfort zone!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great stuff!  Love reading your blog.  Push that comfort zone!</p>
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		<title>By: piper</title>
		<link>http://stepmothersmilk.com/2008/04/12/stepmom-advice-5/comment-page-1/#comment-3324</link>
		<dc:creator>piper</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Mar 2008 19:02:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>one of the most quiet places and moments I know is sitting cross legged on the bottom like you did when you were a kid. 30 seconds there beats 30 minutes meditating. 

just warn the lifeguard beforehand</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>one of the most quiet places and moments I know is sitting cross legged on the bottom like you did when you were a kid. 30 seconds there beats 30 minutes meditating. </p>
<p>just warn the lifeguard beforehand</p>
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		<title>By: Kristi</title>
		<link>http://stepmothersmilk.com/2008/04/12/stepmom-advice-5/comment-page-1/#comment-3321</link>
		<dc:creator>Kristi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Mar 2008 18:13:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have written down the &quot;Reach, Stretch, Breath&quot; mantra on a 3x5 card and stuck it to my refrigerator.  I love it!  Thanks Izzy Rose.  I too took swim lessons as an adult and I still feel it was one of the best things I have done.  I feel so much more comfortable in the water.  Good for you for pushing your comfort zone and reminding us to do the same.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have written down the &#8220;Reach, Stretch, Breath&#8221; mantra on a 3&#215;5 card and stuck it to my refrigerator.  I love it!  Thanks Izzy Rose.  I too took swim lessons as an adult and I still feel it was one of the best things I have done.  I feel so much more comfortable in the water.  Good for you for pushing your comfort zone and reminding us to do the same.</p>
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		<title>By: WhoHa!</title>
		<link>http://stepmothersmilk.com/2008/04/12/stepmom-advice-5/comment-page-1/#comment-3317</link>
		<dc:creator>WhoHa!</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Mar 2008 17:19:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I LOVE THIS SITE. Whenever I&#039;m getting stressed or down or confused, I come here. Now off to the lanes. Maybe the water will purge my negative thoughts. Thank you IZZY!!!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I LOVE THIS SITE. Whenever I&#8217;m getting stressed or down or confused, I come here. Now off to the lanes. Maybe the water will purge my negative thoughts. Thank you IZZY!!!!!</p>
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		<title>By: bonita sarita</title>
		<link>http://stepmothersmilk.com/2008/04/12/stepmom-advice-5/comment-page-1/#comment-3315</link>
		<dc:creator>bonita sarita</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Mar 2008 17:06:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What a wonderful post! I also will be thinking &quot;reach, stretch and breathe&quot; to myself all this week, in and out of the pool.

*And* your new swimming abilities will make a Barton Springs pony keg that much more fun!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What a wonderful post! I also will be thinking &#8220;reach, stretch and breathe&#8221; to myself all this week, in and out of the pool.</p>
<p>*And* your new swimming abilities will make a Barton Springs pony keg that much more fun!!</p>
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		<title>By: LalalaLeah</title>
		<link>http://stepmothersmilk.com/2008/04/12/stepmom-advice-5/comment-page-1/#comment-3313</link>
		<dc:creator>LalalaLeah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Mar 2008 16:30:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, Izzy. 
You crack me up, warm my heart and inspire me to think.
I love how you challenge yourself with these creative athletic endeavors meanwhile setting yourself up for all sorts of joke cracking. Swimsuits, head caps and fins: a perfect storm for auto-ironic hilarity. But I come away from this post thinking about the power of meditation. Your &quot;reach, stretch and breathe&quot; mantra is one I can imagine employing for myself, a young lady without offspring (my own or otherwise). The repetition of this mantra allowed you to focus, but do so in a self-caring manner, something I think in itself is a good, motherly lesson. I take your &quot;reach, stretch and breathe&quot; to mean, &quot;challenge yourself, play around in the experience to feel it&#039;s dimensions and delight in the activity.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, Izzy.<br />
You crack me up, warm my heart and inspire me to think.<br />
I love how you challenge yourself with these creative athletic endeavors meanwhile setting yourself up for all sorts of joke cracking. Swimsuits, head caps and fins: a perfect storm for auto-ironic hilarity. But I come away from this post thinking about the power of meditation. Your &#8220;reach, stretch and breathe&#8221; mantra is one I can imagine employing for myself, a young lady without offspring (my own or otherwise). The repetition of this mantra allowed you to focus, but do so in a self-caring manner, something I think in itself is a good, motherly lesson. I take your &#8220;reach, stretch and breathe&#8221; to mean, &#8220;challenge yourself, play around in the experience to feel it&#8217;s dimensions and delight in the activity.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Mister-M</title>
		<link>http://stepmothersmilk.com/2008/04/12/stepmom-advice-5/comment-page-1/#comment-3307</link>
		<dc:creator>Mister-M</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Mar 2008 14:40:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I can think of no other activity that does such an amazing job with physical fitness, weight loss, and just an overall great feeling both physically and mentally.  And it&#039;s so much FUN to do.

Enjoy it, you&#039;ll find it to be very rewarding.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can think of no other activity that does such an amazing job with physical fitness, weight loss, and just an overall great feeling both physically and mentally.  And it&#8217;s so much FUN to do.</p>
<p>Enjoy it, you&#8217;ll find it to be very rewarding.</p>
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		<title>By: Treasia</title>
		<link>http://stepmothersmilk.com/2008/04/12/stepmom-advice-5/comment-page-1/#comment-3284</link>
		<dc:creator>Treasia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Mar 2008 15:33:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good for you for stepping out of your comfort zone and trying something new.  I commend you on this.  Now if only I can find the motivation for it.  haha</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good for you for stepping out of your comfort zone and trying something new.  I commend you on this.  Now if only I can find the motivation for it.  haha</p>
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